Dear person who runs that so called “porn” blog dedicated to men of “color” don’t post pictures of Brown men and tag them as being both Indian and Middle Eastern. Also, when I kindly try to explain to you what’s wrong about it , the main being they’re TWO DIFFERENT ETHNICITIES, don’t try to defend your actions by saying “ people who are looking to jerk off at some porn is not concerned if i correctly labeled what ethnicity these men are!” Oh I’m sorry, so is that a reason for you to be an ignoramus ? No my good sir, that is not alright and I for one as an Indian take offense to that not only for you actions but from what I’ve seen perpetuated in the gay community. Anyone who is not white, hence a person of color is considered “exotic” and rather than people taking time to learn about what these cultures are we are all lumped into that shitty label. So even if your posts are of mere porn, get your damn facts straight! Otherwise, I suggest you not even tag your shit to begin with. Oh and for the record as for your statement ”Some northern Indians could pass for middle eastern!” Yeah there are a ton of fair skinned Indians who resemble European and Middle Eastern men due to their Aryan ancestry but does that make them any less Indian? NO! I understand at the end of the day this is all about labels and labels for the most part should not dictate who we are but when you try to erase someone’s culture and identity just because their skin colors also match another race it does not sit well with me one bit. Go get your facts straight.







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On National Coming Out Day, Thursday, October 11th, 2012, a coalition of South Asian lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) organizations and individuals in the U.S. will launch DeQH, the first South Asian LGBTQ national helpline. DeQH offers free, confidential, culturally sensitive peer support, information and resources by telephone for LGBTQ South Asian individuals, families and friends around the globe. The intent is to provide a safe and supportive ear for callers to share their concerns, questions, struggles or hopes through conversations with trained LGBTQ South Asian Peer Support Volunteers.Callers can reach the helpline at (908) FOR-DEQH (908-367-3374) 8pm-10pm on Thursdays and Sundays, Eastern Standard Time [5-7pm PST]. Days and times will expand over time.For general information, check out www.deqh.org and contact deqh.info@gmail.com.](http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mbo75gRj051rcjteko1_500.jpg)
